Trivial relationships..Ones that were meaningful at some point but with time- lose their essence, people grow apart, and even a small conversation becomes laborious. You want to talk, its not like you dont want to. But you want to talk because.. You think you should...it used to be easy..you want to for the sake of old times..you may want to re invent old times..heck, you may just want to know more about the person and the goin ons in their lives...whatever the reason i guess we all do that..hold on to things and people...i ve always felt the pinch of it.. And its not because of what i do but in terms of why i do it...
why is it annoying for me when i chose to hang on to trivial relationships and then feel the sheer futility of it. And I end up hurting myself. Isn’t it better to just acknowledge that and move on and just change the definitions to acquaintances or casual friendships. I think it is....
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Just a thought
Are my thoughts getting fewer and fewer or is my brain getting smaller an smaller ??
ps: rhetorical question, do not attempt to answer !
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Random Thought
Speaking about boys and girls, there's one thing I don't understand about bicycles. Exacty why is it boys' bikes have a bar between the seat and the handlebar, and girls' bikes don't? Shouldn't it be the other way around? I mean, if one were to go over a bump on the road and slip off the seat, ..... I think you get the point. So, on that rather painful thought, I'm going to bid adieu for the day. So, bye and take care.
Also, since you can now rate the blog - it doesn't mean that you do not have to comment. i wont hang you if you do both !
3 comments:
a rod between the seat n handle makes a cycle more stable to go at high speeds..and a girl wearing a skirt getting off a bike fitted with such a rod would be greatly inconvenienced..its analogous to a motorbike and a scooty ie the motorbike is akin to a 'guys' cycle and a pink scooty is akin to 'ladies' bicycle...
I like the stuff about trivialising relationships and trying to revist glory days. We all do it.
The bicycle thing, well, I guess it's easier for a guy to mount de cycle the way they do...women can't do that one leg ride-and-mount so well.
But point taken, if there was a bump in de road well, both would get equally hurt.
Go make another kinda gycycle. (pronounced guy-sickle)
I agree, don't keep them. If the very thought is painful, why bother? If it was meant to be a "thick friendship", it would have survived without the lame attempts...
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